“One who is engaged in warfare”
Kyleigh and I have been engaged in warfare with our dog for several months now. Our 1 year old schnoodle, Bristol, loves to chew on a giant bone that she got for Christmas or her birthday or something…..anyway, the bone is about as big as she is. It’s the best financial decision we’ve made as far as a chew toy goes! A $3 bone has lasted about 6 months now! The flip side to this is….it’s her go-to toy. Anytime she’s laying around…she’s chewing on that thing. When bedtime comes…as we walk into the bedroom and call Bristol…here she comes tearing around the corner dragging that bone! She hops up on the bed with it, and proceeds to chew and slobber all over. Let me summarize the interaction each night…Bristol hops up on bed with bone and chews…Justin takes bone and tosses it on floor…Bristol stares at Justin for 4 seconds, hops off the bed, and returns with the bone…repeat this interaction 2 more times before I finally take the bone and put it in my nightstand drawer. At this, Bristol stands on my chest, stares at me as if to say, “If you’re gonna take that from me, then I’m gonna stand on your chest and annoy you until you give it back!” Each night, no matter what….this interraction happens. And each night, Bristol is just as frustrated as the previous night that her bone is taken.
Warfare implies cause. My cause is a bed that’s free of slobber, and that it’s quiet enough to sleep without her chomping on a bone. Her cause is debatable. Not the fact that she has a cause…but which one it is. I believe her cause is a combination of many…the largest of which being her attachment to the bone, and that in the absence of anything else…at least she has a bone to chew on.
Cause implies passion. Because I feel strongly about our slobber-free bed, that passion fuels my persistence of denying Bristol. This is the reason she doesn’t give in. What amazes me each night….is that Bristol NEVER STOPS! She never just has enough and just lays down. Only when I take her bone completely out of sight does she finally settle down.
Passion implies an attachment or emotional investment. Bristol has an attachment to her bone. This is where our commitments to this Rawhide Warfare face a split. I do not have an emotional attachment to the bed, or slobber, for that matter. She never gives up because of her attachment to that bone.
I’m not willing to go to war over a rawhide bone on the bed. My dog is. Bristol wins this war due to lack of passion on my part.
“Warfare implies cause. Cause implies passion. Passion implies attachment or emotional investment. What are you willing to go to war over? I am engaged each day in warfare with the world’s views and expectations. I am willing to go to war for God’s army…and not to always conform to the world. What about you?”
41.100560
-85.192138